This is a blog published by Population First as part of its communication and advocacy efforts. Through "Laadli Oh Meri Laadli" we plan to reach out to a number of people from media and other sectors. The aim is to create a platform for sharing of information, discussions and exchange of views on issues relating to gender and social development.
Monday, November 13, 2017
Rain rain go away!!!
The continuation of monsoon into October was seen as a
nuisance by many of us…our romance with rains was over and we were looking
forward to bright sunny days. But I was anxious. I was remembering the bright
faces of women who said “yeh bar achchi fasal hui madam” and the heavy loss of
standing rice crop that followed such unseasonal rains a few years back. I was
praying that there should be no repetition of that year this time.
So, when I visited
our villages I was very nervous…as expected there was deafening silence, people
going about their work with a sense of resignation. “Koi bhi diwali nahi
manaya madam… poori fasal Kharab hogai
hai” said Sadhna, our village volunteer. And it was heart wrenching to see
stretches and stretches of farms with the crop flattened and drowned in water,
the rice plants growing wild and the rice kernels turned black with fungus. I
was told that the grain cannot be used even by the family as it has not
hardened yet. Now, most families are coping with the burden of paying for
labour to clear the fields to prepare for the vegetable crops which they hope
will sustain them through the year. Not all families engage in a second crop. For them the only hope is the grains saved
from last year and the PDS supplies.
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Crops
damaged by excess and untimely rains
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For villages which have kitchen gardens, farms and forests
surrounding them, we hardly find any sparrows, butterflies and bees. We had to
abandon a bee keeping project because we could not find and retain bees
required for bee-keeping. The heavy and indiscriminate use of chemical fertilisers
and pesticides could be a cause. The white sediment on hard cracked fields
during summers that we see also indicates the havoc that is being played by
chemical fertilisers on the soil. The rising cost of farming and poor returns
are making the villagers sell their land to realtors to develop gated
communities. Many of the small hills are blasted and flattened for road
extensions and timber lobby has cut hundreds of trees in the interiors of
forests taking advantage of the desperation and ignorance of the very poor
tribals in these interior villages of Shahapur. Is it any wonder that the rain
patterns have changed in the last few years?
But in this desperate situation I was surprised to see small
plots of rice fields which were intact. I was told those were the fields where
they have not used hybrid seeds or chemical fertilisers. The plants are short
and sturdy and could withstand the heavy unseasonal rains. It reminded us to go
back to our old methods of farming.
To address some of the issues mentioned above Population
First, through its field project AMCHI has been promoting production of vermi
compost and organic farming in villages through women’s groups for the past few
years. Women are trained not just on production process but also to undertake
promotion, marketing and organise farmer melavas to educate other farmers. The
transformation this is bringing about in the women is tremendous and slowly but
steadily the farmers are showing an inclination to use organic manure in their
fields after seeing the results in the demonstration plots where only the
organic manure produced by the women is used.
Currently, our women engaged in vermi compost project are
working towards taking land from landlords on crop sharing basis and do organic
farming. We are excited about it. This is just the beginning and we are hoping
that we would succeed in making women farmers spearhead
the change in the farming sector.
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| Women engaged in vermi-compost enterprise |
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farming or marketing organic products you could provide us technical and
marketing support, if you are a journalist, photographer or a film maker you
could help us document the process, if you have disposable income and the heart
to support us financially you could do that small act of signing that cheque. And
I am sure all of you can wish us well. Please draw a cheque on the name of Population
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Written by Dr. A.L. Sharada, Director, Population First
Monday, June 26, 2017
A Role Model and a Change Maker
Pramila of Gokulgaon
village
Pramila
Dhirde, 45, lives in Gokulgaon – a village with population of 280 people, in
Shahapur block of Thane district in Maharashtra. Most families in the village
are engaged in agriculture, cultivating rice and a few vegetables.
Pramila is educated up to 10th std., considered a high qualification
for a woman of her age in the village. She lives with her two daughters and
husband. Her husband has barely gone to school and is engaged full time in
agriculture on a small plot of land he inherited from his father. Pramila works
equally hard in their farm in addition to taking care of the household work.
The household income of around Rs. 45000 per annum is enough to cover basic
necessities including the school education of the girls.
When
PF, under it's AMCHI field project introduced vermi-composting as an income
generation activity in the village in March 2015, Pramila was one of the first
women to enroll for the activity. As the initiative was agro-allied and did not
require much
travel outside the village, Pramila was keen to try. She was eager
to get the
additional income
that it promised.
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Pramila said, "Apart from the vermi-compost enterprise, I
got lot of information from sessions on ante-natal and post-natal care
which were being conducted in my village. I make good use of the
information. I share this with other women of the village. I am able to talk
to the doctors at PHC and RH very well. This has increased my confidence
further."
Pramila convinced her sister-in-law to have the
delivery done in the government hospital instead of private nursing home.
She accompanied her to the hospital alone and had her delivery done. As
soon as she notices any pregnant woman in the community or family, she
ensures that her registration is done with the ANM / Anganwadi Centre.
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| Pramila (left) working in her vermi compost unit |
Pramila and her partners did not stop at that but regularly followed up
with the farmers who had shown interest. The communication skills learnt in the
training sessions came handy to them. The group also made a tie-up with a
nearby buffalo-owner who steadily supplied them with good quality animal dung
at reasonable price. The group thus established links in the market as well as
for obtaining raw material.
The
effort paid off and the sale increased gradually. The group made a good profit
in the second year of the enterprise. Pramila got around Rs.10000 in the year
and was very happy to support her younger daughter’s higher education and elder
daughter’s marriage. Besides having the purchasing power Pramila now commands
respect of her immediate and extended family. She is respected in the community
too as she is a member of the first group of women to have a successful
business.
Going
beyond what was taught in the training sessions, the group now plans to increase
their production by increasing the number of earthworms in the pits. They are
developing clients outside Shahapur who would pick up the manure regularly.
They are targeting farm houses of Murbad taluka. They wish to sell manure under
their brand name “Sanjivani” – the life-giver. All the group members have been
able to garner the support of their husband as well to give boost to the
production and sale.
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| Pramila explains benefits of vermi-wash |
Like
Pramila there are around 175 women across 24 groups in different villages of
Shahapur who enjoy the small financial freedom the enterprise has given them.
For the first time in their lives they are getting money for their work. They
are enjoying the mobility and enhanced social interactions too which the
enterprise brings along. Women feel confident and hopeful of achieving much
more. They wish to do something for the development of their community. They
are being role models
for so many girls and women across villages.
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Friday, May 5, 2017
WHEN WOMEN ASPIRE FOR A BETTER FUTURE
Over the past few years, Indian movies have consistently made efforts to bring forward inspiring stories of women from from all walk of life. Laadli applauds this welcome effort by Cinema and it gives us great pleasure to announce that the South Asia Laadli Media and Advertising Award for Gender Sensitivity 2015-16, Feature Film category, goes to:
PARCHED
Directed by
| Leena Yadav | ||
Writing Credits
| Supratik Sen | ||
| Leena Yadav | ||
Cast
Tannishtha Chatterjee, Radhika Apte, Suvreen Chawla, Lehar Khan
In the parched lands of a desert the three protagonists long for meaningful relationships with the men in their lives, who fill their lives with only violence of the most heinous kind. The perverted and skewed perceptions of masculinity, the fragility of male egos and the violence perpetrated by men is starkly contrasted with the warm friendship and bonding between the women which makes them acknowledge and explore their own desires and sexuality, ultimately exercising their agency and choice to chart their own path. The women of Parched rescue each other, triumph over their insecurities and unleash their inner strength.
NIL BATTEY SANNATA
Directed by
| Ashwiny Iyer Tiwari | ||
Writing Credits (in alphabetical order)
| Nitesh Tiwari, Ashwini Iyer Tiwari, Neeraj Singh, Pranjal Chowdhary |
Cast
Swara Bhaskar, Ratna Pathak, Riya Shukla
Nil Battey Sannaṭa, sensitively tells the story of the conflict between a single working mother from lower economic strata and her adolescent and defiant daughter. It brings out the conflict between the despair of the daughter who sees no value in education and no hope for her future except to be a maid like her mother and the aspiration of the mother who sees hope for her daughter’s upward mobility in education. It is an inspiring story of a mother teaching her daughter to dream, aspire and achieve. This film tells the story of aspirations of a working class single mother with sensitivity, simplicity and humor that resonates with the audience.
Both rousing and powerful films, Nil Battey Sannata and Parched make a statement on sisterhood between women of all ages and social strata, united in their hope of a better future.
We congratulate the winners and hope to see more and more of such gender sensitive movies in the coming years!
Written by: Dr. A L Sharada
Written by: Dr. A L Sharada
Monday, May 1, 2017
"Where a woman is unpaid, unheard and unrecognised"
THE WATER WIVES: WINNER OF A LAADLI AWARD
It is only fitting to announce the South Asia Laadli Media and Advertising Award for the Short Film category, on Labour Day. "The Water Wives" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bVNdsdQEfLI&t=2s is a short film released by ActionAid India, which is based on true stories. It draws our attention to the discrimination and inherent dehumanization of women in certain parts of our country where men marry multiple times in order to have a wife exclusively for the task of fetching water. The whole premise begs the question, how are multiple marriages the solution for
water scarcity? Is it because a wife's work is unpaid and expected as servitude in marriage? Why does our social fabric weave a picture of bonded labour when it comes to a wife's tasks? Or is it another excuse for the man to derive sexual pleasure from a younger woman?
Caught in the vicious cycle of worsening plight and worsening poverty, the Water Wives have ended up as commodities that work to the advantage of the men involved, who now have another woman in the house to fulfil their sexual urges as well. The film highlights the unpaid and unappreciated labor women put in for running households and how they can be reduced to mere tools of achieving unpaid domestic work.
The film is a testament to how poverty and water scarcity, difficult circumstances, affect men and women differently. While crises lead to an increase in exploitation of women; men turn them around for their benefit. An objective assessment of the situation could lead to solutions like obtaining a shared motorized vehicle by the villagers to fetch water, or hiring some villagers for the task, or taking turns among households in a locality; simple methods of water conservation to ensure sufficient water supply, etc. And yet men have chosen polygamy as the solution, exposing a situation rife with discrimination.
In appreciation of shedding light on this appalling practice faced by women, we announce our first winner "The Water Wives" and congratulate all those involved in the making of this short film. Below is the invite for the award function. We hope to see you there!
Watch this space for announcement of our MOVIE Winners next!
Suggested videos- Water Wives:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A2hUccoj674&t=17s
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7brs2NXzD7Q
Written by : Dr. Ishmeet Nagpal
Editing credits: Dr. A L Sharada, Ms. Srinidhi Raghavan
It is only fitting to announce the South Asia Laadli Media and Advertising Award for the Short Film category, on Labour Day. "The Water Wives" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bVNdsdQEfLI&t=2s is a short film released by ActionAid India, which is based on true stories. It draws our attention to the discrimination and inherent dehumanization of women in certain parts of our country where men marry multiple times in order to have a wife exclusively for the task of fetching water. The whole premise begs the question, how are multiple marriages the solution for
water scarcity? Is it because a wife's work is unpaid and expected as servitude in marriage? Why does our social fabric weave a picture of bonded labour when it comes to a wife's tasks? Or is it another excuse for the man to derive sexual pleasure from a younger woman?
Caught in the vicious cycle of worsening plight and worsening poverty, the Water Wives have ended up as commodities that work to the advantage of the men involved, who now have another woman in the house to fulfil their sexual urges as well. The film highlights the unpaid and unappreciated labor women put in for running households and how they can be reduced to mere tools of achieving unpaid domestic work.
The film is a testament to how poverty and water scarcity, difficult circumstances, affect men and women differently. While crises lead to an increase in exploitation of women; men turn them around for their benefit. An objective assessment of the situation could lead to solutions like obtaining a shared motorized vehicle by the villagers to fetch water, or hiring some villagers for the task, or taking turns among households in a locality; simple methods of water conservation to ensure sufficient water supply, etc. And yet men have chosen polygamy as the solution, exposing a situation rife with discrimination.
In appreciation of shedding light on this appalling practice faced by women, we announce our first winner "The Water Wives" and congratulate all those involved in the making of this short film. Below is the invite for the award function. We hope to see you there!
Watch this space for announcement of our MOVIE Winners next!
Suggested videos- Water Wives:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A2hUccoj674&t=17s
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7brs2NXzD7Q
Written by : Dr. Ishmeet Nagpal
Editing credits: Dr. A L Sharada, Ms. Srinidhi Raghavan
Thursday, April 13, 2017
'Anaarkali of Aarah' is a giant leap for Bollywood
A look at 'Anaarkali of Aarah' through the gender lens
Anaarkali of Aarah is a song of retribution and a classic revenge story, Bollywood masala style, and yet it is so real that you feel you are part of her every decision. Maybe it's just me, but rather than watch something like Bat'man' and Super'man' fight it out in incredible VFX, give me Anaarkali's fight for her dignity and bodily autonomy any day.
Anaarkali of Aarah is a song of retribution and a classic revenge story, Bollywood masala style, and yet it is so real that you feel you are part of her every decision. Maybe it's just me, but rather than watch something like Bat'man' and Super'man' fight it out in incredible VFX, give me Anaarkali's fight for her dignity and bodily autonomy any day.
Anaarkali of Aarah, through the story of sexual harassment of an entertainment dancer, makes you curious to dissect the psyche of men who perpetrate such assault. What are we as a society enabling by encouraging use of a female body dancing suggestively as a source of entertainment? Same logic goes for item songs, strip clubs, dance bars. The movie resonates with real life more than we could imagine. Do yourself a favour and google a certain music company in Haryana (hint: it's named after a bird) and watch a fully clad performer gyrate to regional song about a 'solid' anatomy. The channel has millions of followers— in fact, my friend's barber showed him a downloaded video while shaving him, and said, "Ye dekho mast cheej". The videos have awestruck men staring at the performer, who by the way, brings a man in the capacity of a bodyguard (like the character of Swara Bhaskar’s manager in Anaarkali, played by Pankaj Tripathi). Some would argue that the position of power Anaarkali holds over the crowd as she performs, is empowering in itself, yet the nagging feeling that this isn't right in the first place, just does not go away.
The movie’s premise of harassment endured by entertainment dancers is eerily reminiscent of the woman shot dead on stage in Punjab while entertaining a group of drunk men at a wedding. There has been no word in the media on what retribution the perpetrators faced. In fact all headlines read "girl shot dead/dancer shot dead/pregnant girl shot dead" and hardly any headline mentions who shot her (note the prevalent use of ‘girl’ to describe a full grown woman). The theme with all crimes related to women is the same, "Girl raped/girl molested/girl murdered" with more focus on the profile of the victim and her personal life, rather than the accused. Consider this- "Drunk man kills a wedding performer on camera", "Rifle firing by men at weddings claims another life", “Violence by men on the rise”. Oh wait, let's not say too much, we may trigger another #NotAllMen outrage.
The movie also explores the stigma that comes with being branded a sex worker in this country. It's apparent that being branded a sex worker (whether you are one or not) makes you a second class citizen immediately, a citizen who has no recourse with the authorities or sympathy from society, and whose self respect suffers a great deal. This brings about a technical question as well about the laws of our land. Sex work (I hate the word prostitution) is legal in India and yet many women and men are arrested and harassed on this charge. For the sex workers this is double jeopardy because if they are scared of the authorities, who protects them?
Anaarkali uses the system to her advantage to exact revenge on her own terms. The climax of the film has the audience spellbound, internally cheering for Anaarkali. The movie makes you root for a woman who is not a pious, quintessential abla naari, and that I think is great progress in itself where Bollywood is concerned.
The writer is Programme Manager, Population First and the review was published in DNA India on April 5 2017.
Wednesday, February 15, 2017
Ae Dil Hai Mushkil: Is modern Bollywood representing us well?
Karan Johar’s
rendering of ‘unrequited love’ in Ae Dil Hai Mushkil speaks of anything but
love. Systematic stalking and emotional abuse are not love. Trying to kiss your
platonic friend when she’s clearly uncomfortable, and then resorting to
domestic violence, is not love. Yes, breaking vases is also domestic violence.
The characters stumble in and out of toxic relationships, and the audience is
supposed to feel sorry for them and root for a happy ending.
Let’s take a look at all the characters
without their glossy Bollywood faces. Alizeh is portrayed as a modern woman who
makes split second judgement, assessing (even before meeting her) that Ayan’s
girlfriend would only be with him for money. Feeding the golddigger stereotype
is not doing us any good as a nation that consumes Punjabi rap about girls ‘selling
their affections’- so to speak- on a daily basis. Also, in an era of strong
women who want to stand up against not just physical but emotional abuse,
Alizeh’s initial choices are hardly a beacon of hope for women suffering
silently in their homes. But we have to give her due credit for extricating
herself from one toxic relationship at least, which was her marriage. No such
luck with ridding herself of Ayan though, whose re-entry is juxtaposed with the
entry of cancer.
When it comes to Ayan, his caustic
behaviour toward the people in his life has been excused by various write-ups
and reviews by calling him a ‘Man-child’, but this just sounds like another
version of “boys will be boys”. This excuse-culture needs to be stopped. People
must be held accountable for their deeds and bear the consequences. To give
Ayan a happy reconciliation with his ‘friend’, is an assurance that no matter
how badly you behave you will be rewarded for persistence that borders on
stalking and harassment. The lowest point of the movie occurred in the
thankfully deleted ‘Evening in Paris’ song, when Ayan grabs a random stranger’s
hand. Instead of calling out his groping and sexual assault, she playfully
caresses his cheek. What does this convey? That it is okay to be sexually
harassed when a ‘hero’ is doing it? The second problem in this blink-and-miss
moment is the stereotyping of ‘firang’ females as ‘loose’ women who would not
mind being groped.
Saba, played by the ethereal
Aishwarya Rai Bachchan, breaks through the cacophony as a sole voice of reason
when she dumps Ayan, on being used as shiny trophy to show off to his true lady
love, Alizeh. Saba’s ex-husband played by Shahrukh Khan is very eloquent, and
yet invades his ex wife’s personal space time and again. Do any women, even the
happily divorced ones, want their exes to breathe down their necks in public?
What are Bollywood movies subliminally planting in the consciousness of the
populace? It is high time mainstream filmmakers woke up to the subtle hints in
their movies that help develop a culture of abuse.
This review is by Ishmeet Nagpal who is a programme co-ordinator for Laadli -A Population First Initiative
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